Wednesday, 30 December 2015

A Heart Touching Story Of A Brother And SIster


I have a brother who is 3 years younger than me. I wanted to buy a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have.

So, one day I stole 50 cents from my father’s drawer.Father had discovered about the stolen money right away. He made me and my younger brother kneel against the wall as he held a bamboo stick in his hand. ‘Who stole the money?’ he asked. I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Neither of us admitted to the fault, so he said, ‘Fine, if nobody wants to admit, you two should be beaten!’ He lifted up the bamboo stick.

Suddenly, my younger brother gripped father’s hand and said, Dad, I was the one who did it!’ The longstick smacked my brother’s back repeatedly. Father was so angry that he kept on whipping my brother until he lost his breath.

After that, he sat down on our stone bed and scolded my brother, ‘You have learned to steal from your own house now. What other embarrassing things will you are possibly doing in the future? You should be beaten to death, you shameless thief!’ That night, my mother and I hugged my brother.

His body was full of wounds from the beating but he never shed a single tear. In the middle of the night, all of sudden, I cried out loudly. My brother covered my mouth with his little hand and said, Sis, now don’t cry anymore.
Everything has happened.’ I still hate myself for not having enough courage to admit what I did. Years went by, but the incident still seemed like it just happened yesterday. I will never forget my brother’s expression when he protected me. That year, my brother was 8 years old and I was 11 years old.

When my brother was in his last year of secondary school, he was accepted in an upper secondary school in the central. At the same time, I was accepted into a university in the province. That night, father squatted in the yard, smoking, packet by packet. I could hear him ask my mother, ‘Both of our children, they have good results? Very good results?’ Mother wiped off her tears and sighed,’ What is the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?’ At that time, my brother walked out, he stood in front of father and said, ‘Dad, I don’t want to continue my study anymore, I have read enough books.’

Father swung his hand and slapped my brother on his face. ‘Why do you have a spirit so damn weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets, I will send you two to school until you have both finished your studies!’ And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow money. I stuck out my hand as gently as I can to my brother’s swollen face, and told him, ‘A boy has to continue his study; if not; he will not be able to overcome this poverty we are experiencing. ‘ I, on the otherhand, had decided not to further my study at the university.

Nobody knew that on the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn-out clothes and a few dry beans. He sneaked to my side of the bed and left a note on my pillow; ‘Sis, getting into a university is not easy. I will go find a job and I will send money to you.’ I held the note while sitting on my bed, and cried until I lost my voice.

That year, my brother was 17 years old; I was 20 years old.With the money father borrowed from the whole village, and the money my brother earned from carrying cement on his back at a construction site, finally, I managed to get to the third year of my study in the university. One day, while I was studying in my room, my roommate came in and told me, ‘There’s a villager waiting for you outside!’ Why would there be a villager looking for me? I walked out, and I saw my brother from afar.



His whole body was covered with dirt, dust, cement and sand. I asked him, ‘Why did you not tell my roommate that you are my brother?’ He replied with a smile,’ Look at my appearance. What will they think if they would know that I am your brother? Won’t they laugh at you?’ I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I swept away dirt and dust from my brother’s body. And told him with a lump in my throat, ‘I don’t care what people would say! You are my brother no matter what your appearance is?’ From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip.

He put it on my hair and said, ‘I saw all the girls in town are wearing it. So, I think you should also have one.’ I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother into my arms and cried. That year, my brother was 20 years old; I was 23 years old. I noticed that the broken window was repaired the first time I brought my boyfriend home. The house was scrubbed cleaned.

After my boyfriend left, I danced like a little girl in front of my mother, ‘Mom, you didn’t have to spend so much time cleaning the house!’ But she told me with a smile, ‘It was your brother who went home early to clean the house. Didn’t you see the wound on his hand? He hurt his hand while he was replacing the window.’ I went into my brother’s bedroom.
Looking at his thin face, I felt like hundreds of needles pricked in my heart. I applied some ointment on his wound and put a bandage on it, ‘Does it hurt?’ I asked him.. ‘No, it doesn’t hurt. You know, when at the construction site, stones keep falling on my feet …Even that could not stop me from working.’ In the middle of the sentence, he stopped. I turned my back on him and tears rolled down my face.

That year, my brother was 23 years old;I was 26 years old. After I got married, I lived in the city. Many times my husband invited my parents to come and live with us, but they didn’t want. They said, once they left the village, they wouldn’t know what to do. My brother agreed with them.

He said, ‘Sis, you just take care of your parents-in-law. I will take care of Mom and Dad here.’ My husband became the director of his factory. We asked my brother to accept the offer of being the manager in the maintenance department. But my brother rejected the offer. He insisted on working as a repairman instead for a start.

One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable, when he got electrocuted, and was sent to the hospital. My husband and I visited him at the hospital. Looking at the plaster cast on his leg, I grumbled, ‘Why did you reject the offer of being a manager?

Managers won’t do something dangerous like that. Now look at you – you are sufferinga serious injury. Why didn’t you just listen to us?’ With a serious expression on his face, he defended his decision, ‘Think of brother-in-law. He just became the director, and I being uneducated, and would become a manager, what kind of rumors would fly around?’ My husband’s eyes filled up with tears, and then I said, ‘But you lack in education only because of me!’ ‘Why do you talk about the past?’ he said and then he held my hand.

That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old. My brother was 30 years old when he married a farmer girl from the village. During the wedding reception, the master of ceremonies asked him, ‘Who is the one person you respect and love the most?’ Without even taking a time to think, he answered,’ My sister.’ He continued by telling a story I could not even remember.

‘When I was in primary school, the school was in a different village. Everyday, my sister and I would walk for 2 hours to school and back home. One day, I lost the other pair of my gloves. My sister gave me one of hers. She wore only one glove and she had to walk far.

When we got home, her hands were trembling because of the cold weather that she could not even hold her chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that as long as I live, I would take care of my sister and will always be good to her.’ Applause filled up the room.

All guests turned their attention to me. I found it hard to speak, ‘In my whole life, the one I would like to thank most is my brother, ‘And in this happy occasion, in front of the crowd, tears were rolling down my face again.

Love and care for the one you love every single day of your life. You may think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may means a lot.

HEART TOUCHING STORY

A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an urgent surgery. He answered the call asap, changed his clothes & went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy's father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor. On seeing him, the dad yelled:
"Why did U take all this time to come? Don't U know that my son's life is in danger? Don't U have any sense of responsibility?"



The doctor smiled & said:
"I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital & I came as fast as I could after receiving the call...... And now, I wish you'd calm down so that I can do my work"


"Calm down?! What if your son was in this room right now, would U calm down? If your own son dies now what will U do??" said the father angrily

The doctor smiled again & replied: "I will say what Job said in the Holy Book "From dust we came & to dust we return, blessed be the name of God". Doctors cannot prolong lives. Go & intercede for your son, we will do our best by God's grace"

"Giving advises when we're not concerned is so easy" Murmured the father.

The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy,
"Thank goodness!, your son is saved!" And without waiting for the father's reply he carried on his way running. "If U have any question, ask the nurse!!"

"Why is he so arrogant? He couldn't wait some minutes so that I ask about my son's state" Commented the father when seeing the nurse minutes after the doctor left.

The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: "His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we called him for your son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life, he left running to finish his son's burial."

Moral-Never judge anyone..... because U never know how their life is & what they're going through"

THE STORY OF A BLIND GIRL

 
 There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?”

The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying:

“Just take care of my eyes dear.”

This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations.

Life Is A Gift

Today before you think of saying an unkind word–
think of someone who can’t speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food–
think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife–
think of someone who is crying out to God for a companion.

Today before you complain about life–
think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you complain about your children–
think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep–
think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive–
think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job–
think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another–
remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down–
put a smile on your face and thank God you’re alive and still around.

Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, and Fulfill it.

Friday, 25 December 2015

Past, Present, Future

Past, Present, Future

It's been two years, since we've been together
but the times we had feels like forever
i'll remember the moments, i'll keep it close in heart
it's sad to say, we'll be far apart

Through all laughs and tears
through all hates and loves
through all fights and joy
i am glad we went through it together

We are young and we are reckless
being with you, i find the real meaning of love
even those three simple words never was recited
i want you to know i love you

All the pictures hung on the wall
the memories never will fade at all
thank you for the cries
thank you for the smiles

I know we fight sometimes but deep down i still care
here i knelt and seek for forgiveness
for all wrongs done
no matter what we'll still stay strong



Time for farewell all
because there will be no more
the smiles the laughter
and all the joys of being a whole
just like being in one family
always remember
all the memories
that we have shared together
thank you
from the bottom of my heart
for giving the best moments in life

it wouldn't be the same
silent mornings, missing laughters
empty spaces,
I'd miss all the days
we'd go crazy together

All thats left is just memories
That we shall cherish forever
hope none are forgotten
it'll stay with me till the end

this is the end
we'll take different roads
go on to our previous lives
will we see each other again ?


we'll go on our separate ways
have the live we longed for
be the person we dreamt of
reach beyond our limits

Goodluck to all
may you be the best among the best
hope you become successful
but never forget us all

see you guys in the future <3

Mistake. It's a learning process

It doesn't matter if you've done a million good things, but when only once you do something wrong, you're seen as a bad person forever.

It's hard to satisfy and nothing will ever be enough

But we're humans. You. Me. We try our best but we'll make mistakes, It's the matter of forgiving and acceptance. and learning. Because making mistakes is the best teachers.

When you succeed,
you earn something,
when you fail,
you learn something
you need both

STEP BY STEP
There is no elevator to succe, it'snot gonna be easy. But it will be worth it in the end

Be patient, learn to forgive.

Dunya is just temporary

Have you felt like you’ve accomplished so much and get rewarded with all these fantastic things, big house, money, high-tech handphones, ipads, labtops, big cars, and got accepted to a well known university. And you feel like you have everything; great family, great friends, good grades etc. Is that the purpose of life? Could the acquisition of wealth guarantee happiness? Well, lremember this verse from the Quran :
“O My People! The life of this world is only temporary enjoyment, while the abode of hereafter is everlasting”  (Surah Al Mu’min : 39)
Our purpose of life is to ibadah or worship The Almighty who gave us the life and to please Him which we’ll lead us to Jannah. Dunya is indeed a temporary place for us to live as stated in this ayah. We are like a traveller. Our destination is Jannah where we’ll live forever. InsyaAllah. And Dunya is a pit stop that we take, to make preparations, and well it is where we are tested, to test our faith. Because in this  verse
“Do the people think that they will be left alone on saying “we believe,” and they will not be tested? We did test those who have gone before them. Allah has to see who are the truthful and who are the liars “ ( Surah An-kabut : 2-3)
Allah has even tested the people before us, among them are all the prophets and the people who were with them. We are all to be tested. All these rewards and ease in dunya are actually tests. In fact, ease is a more difficult test than hardships are..  Allah tests us whether we are grateful to Him or if we have patience, and tests us whether we still remember Him through all the temptations and rewards.
Rivalry in worldly increase distracts you (from the remembrance of Allah), till you come to the graves” (surah At-Takkathur: 1-2).

Because humans tend to forget The Creator when we are happy and our life is easy-going and only go to Allah when facing a tremendous hardship. Remember that nothing in dunya stays, whether it’s the hardships or the ease.  And remember that this ease, we are just borrowing them from Allah. Nothing is ours. Allah can take it from us whenever He wants.

“...We all belong to Allah and to Him we shall return.”  ( surah Al-Baqarah : 2:156)

People would wonder, “He/She doesn’t pray, or doesn’t cover their aurah, but Allah gives them straight A’s”  Allah tests his servants in dunya in any ways possible and different ways for different people. Some people are tested with being poor and have hardships.  And we hear people say “I have all I need there is to be happy even if I’m not really an obedient muslim, then why would Allah reward me with these?” which reward do we really want? Which reward are we really after? Rewards in dunya or rewards in akhirah? Temporary or eternal? We have sadly become distracted and absorbed by this dunya, and lost sight of our purpose
“No, you prefer the life of this world, while the hereafter is better and that which remains (Surah Al a’laa : 16-17)
Life is just a test.  Don’t give into these temptations. We are given life here in dunya to obey Allah and all his order. To have faith in Allah, and to always remember Him no matter what; through thick or thin, through ease and hardships.
Believe in the azabs we’ll get if we don’t obey Him. Na’uzubillahiminzalik. Believe in the Day of Judgement where will be judged on our iman, ibadahs, practices, ihsan but on not how much money we had on earth.  Never let dunya into your heart. Hold dunya with your hands and believe in akhirah with your heart. We live here to be prepared for the life after We’ll never have all of dunya, but the eternity can be ours. And happiness can be ours by focusing on the reality of Allah’s reward, which is without reckoning. Everything in this world is accounted for, on our bank statement, every penny counts. In the akhirah, no hisab, just the Divine generosity, and that which is eternal is limitless and expression of His rahmah and generosity. Subhanallah. It will all worth it in the end, akhirah, when we step in to the beautifiul gardens of Paradise. InsyaAllah

It’s never too late to repent to Allah. Allah opens our door for taubah just so wide I can’t imagie MasyaAllah. He is the Forgiver, He is the most Merciful. He is the most Gracius.  Allah is near and he is waiting for us to go to Him, to cry to Him, to worship Him, to bend on our knees for Him, to pray Him, to let out all of our sorrows and griefs to Him, to have gratitude in Him. He’ll listen. He’ll never stop listening. Have eman and work righteous actions, and take small consistent steps to improve – you will enjoy super productivity in this world and joy in the next insha’Allah! O’Allah have mercy on us and save us from the hellfire.

“And those who believe and do righteousgood deeds, they are dwellers or paradise,they will dwell therein forever(surah Al Baqarah : 82)
There are just so many verses in the Quran on entering Jannah for the believers! SubhanAllah!

Friday, 6 November 2015

12 Unexpected Benefits of Drinking Hot Water

I think that most of us know by now that water is essential to our survival. We’ve probably also all heard doctors say that drinking roughly eight glasses a day is ideal. However, what most people don’t know is that warm water and hot water have some exclusive benefits of their own that you just can’t get when you drink water cold. Here are 12 benefits of drinking hot water:

1. Weight Loss

Hot water is great for maintaining a healthy metabolism, which is what you want if you’re trying to shed a few kilos. The best way to do this is to kick start your metabolism early in the morning with a glass of hot water and lemon. As an added bonus, hot water will help to break down the adipose tissue (aka body fat) in your body.

2. Assists with Nasal and Throat Congestion

Drinking hot water is an excellent natural remedy for colds, coughs and a sore throat. It dissolves phlegm and also helps to remove it from your respiratory tract. As such, it can provide relief from a sore throat. It also helps in clearing nasal congestion.

3. Menstrual Cramps

Hot water can also aid in diminishing menstrual cramps. The heat of the water has a calming and soothing effect on the abdominal muscles, which eventually can help to cure cramps and spasms.

4. Body Detoxification

Hot water is fantastic for helping your body to detox. When you drink hot water, your body temperature begins to rise, which results in sweat. You want this to happen because it helps to release toxins from your body and cleanse it properly. For optimal results, add a squeeze of lemon before drinking.

5. Prevents Premature Aging

There’s a reason you should want to clear your body of toxins: they make you age faster. Also, drinking hot water helps to repair the skin cells that increase the elasticity of your skin and are affected by harmful free radicals. Subsequently, your damaged skin becomes smoother.

6. Prevents Acne and Pimples

The benefits for your skin just keep on coming. Hot water deep cleanses your body and eliminates the root causes of acne-related infections.

7. Hair Health and Vitality

Drinking hot water is also good for obtaining soft, shiny hair. It energizes the nerve endings in your hair roots and makes them active. This is beneficial for getting back the natural vitality of your hair and keeping it healthy.

8. Promotes Hair Growth

Activating the roots of your hair has another added benefit—growth! The hot water promotes the regular activity of the roots and subsequently accelerates the growth of your hair.

9. Prevents Dandruff

Hot water keeps your scalp hydrated and helps fight against dry scalp or dandruff.

10. Enhances Blood Circulation and Promotes A Healthy Nervous System

Another important benefit of drinking hot water is that it enhances your blood circulation, which is important for proper muscle and nerve activity. In addition, it keeps your nervous system healthy by breaking down the fat deposits around it.

11. Digestion

Hot water is particularly beneficial for digestion. Studies have shown that drinking cold water during or after a meal can harden the oil present in the consumed foods. This can create a fat deposit on the inner wall of your intestine, which can eventually result in intestinal cancer. However, if you replace the glass of cold water with hot, you can avoid this problem. In addition, hot water is beneficial to digestion, which is what you want after a meal.

12. Bowel Movements

Speaking of digestion, hot water can help to keep you regular, as well as make your bowel movements healthy and pain free. Dehydration can result in chronic problems with constipation. As the stool gets accumulated inside your intestine, the movement of the bowel becomes slower. It is always recommended that you consume a glassful of hot or warm water every morning when your stomach is empty. It decomposes any remnant foodstuffs and makes the movement of the particles smooth and less painful through the intestine.

8 Benefits of Coconut Water You Didn’t Know About

Coconut water is the ultimate thirst quencher and offers a tasty alternative to water. This pure liquid is packed with nutrients that yield an array of health benefits. Here are 8 Benefits of Coconut Water that explain why it has become so popular:

1. Aids in Weight-loss Efforts.

The fat content in coconut water is extremely low, so generous quantities can be consumed without the fear of immediately packing on the pounds. It also suppresses the appetite and makes you feel full because of its rich nature.

2. Picture-Perfect Skin.

For those with acne or other blemishes on the surface of the skin, topical application of coconut water can go a great distance as it has the ability to clear up and subsequently tone the skin. It also moisturizes the skin from within if ingested orally and eliminates large amounts of oil. This explains why products such as facial creams, shampoos, conditioners and lotions that contain traces of coconut extract are more effective.

3. The Ultimate Hangover Remedy.

Next time you overdo it and drink more than your belly can handle, consume coconut water to settle your stomach. It will also replace those essential electrolytes that exit the body if you experience bouts of frequent urination and vomiting.

4. Facilitates Digestion.

If you constantly encounter difficulty during the digestion process, coconut water may provide a source of relief. Because of its high concentration of fiber, it aids in the prevention of indigestion and reduces the occurrence of acid reflux.

5. Boosts Hydration.

The ingredients in coconut water are way more effective at hydrating the human body than those of sports and energy drinks. During rigorous exercise or extended periods of physical activity, the human body loses mineral-rich fluids. However, coconut water serves as an excellent replacement medium with 294 mg of potassium and 5 mg of natural sugar per glass, unlike your favorite sports drink that only contains half of the potassium content and five times the amount of processed sugar. In addition, the sodium count is only 25 mg, which is relatively low compared to the 41 and 20 mg found in sports drinks and energy drinks respectively.

6. Reduces Blood Pressure.

In many instances, a disproportionate level of electrolytes can result in high blood pressure. Because coconut water contains an adequate supply of each, it can be used as a balancing mechanism. In some instances, it is recommended that coconut water be consumed at the start of each day to foster the balance of these electrolytes.

7. Rich in Nutrients.

Unlike any other beverage on the market, coconut water contains five essential electrolytes that are present in the human body. These include: calcium, magnesium, phosphorous, potassium and sodium. Because of its unique composition, coconut water can be enjoyed by individuals with varying medical conditions.

8. Compatible with Human Blood.

Since it is isotonic to human plasma, coconut water can be used in extreme emergencies to quickly rehydrate the human body if administered intravenously. It is not uncommon for the drink to be used in poorer, third-world countries to save human lives.

How Much Should You Consume?

Coconut water can be enjoyed as a stand-alone beverage or combined with another liquid product. There is no hard and fast rule regarding the amount that should be consumed on a daily basis, but experts from the Mayo Clinic strongly suggest that you consider maintaining an active lifestyle if consuming large amounts of coconut water since each eight ounce serving is accompanied by 45 to 60 calories.
When searching for the perfect fresh coconut to enjoy, be sure to steer clear of those that have a hard brown shell as this is an indication that it is mature. Instead, look for those that are young and green on the exterior as they usually contain a large supply of the actual coconut water substance. To test it out, simply shake the coconut up and down to gauge how much liquid it contains.

Monday, 26 October 2015

Our Responsibilities on Earthquakes and similar Accidents.

Our response when there is an earthquake or some other sign such as an eclipse, strong winds or floods, should be to hasten to repent to Allaah and pray to Him for safety, and to remember Him much and seek His forgiveness, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said when there was an eclipse: 
“If you see anything like that, hasten to remember Him, call on Him and seek His forgiveness.” (Part of an agreed-upon hadeeth narrated by al-Bukhaari (2/30) and Muslim (2/628)).
It is also mustahabb (recommended, encouraged) to show compassion to the poor and needy, and to give charity to them, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“Show mercy, you will be shown mercy.” (Narrated by Imaam Ahmad, 2/165)
“Those who are merciful will be shown mercy by the Most Merciful. Have mercy on those who are on earth, and the One Who is in heaven will show mercy to you.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood (13/285), al-Tirmidhi (6/43)).
“Whoever does not show mercy will not be shown mercy.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5/75), Muslim (4/1809)).
It was reported that when there was an earthquake, ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez (may Allaah have mercy on him) would write to his governors telling them to give in charity.
One of the things which will help to keep people safe and sound is if the authorities impose an immediate crack-down on the foolish elements in society, forcing them to behave and applying the laws of sharee’ah to them, enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“The believers, men and women, are Awliyaa’ (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another; they enjoin (on the people) Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do), and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (i.e. polytheism and disbelief of all kinds, and all that Islam has forbidden); they perform As-Salaah (Iqaamat-as-Salaah), and give the Zakaah, and obey Allaah and His Messenger. Allaah will have His Mercy on them. Surely, Allaah is All-Mighty, All-Wise” [al-Tawbah 9:71]
“Verily, Allaah will help those who help His (Cause). Truly, Allaah is All-Strong, All-Mighty.  Those (Muslim rulers) who, if We give them power in the land, (they) enjoin Iqamat-as-Salaah [i.e. to perform the five compulsory congregational Salaah (prayers) (the males in mosques)], to pay the Zakaah and they enjoin Al-Ma‘roof (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do), and forbid Al-Munkar (i.e. disbelief, polytheism and all that Islam has forbidden) [i.e. they make the Qur’aan as the law of their country in all the spheres of life]. And with Allaah rests the end of (all) matters (of creatures).” [al-Hajj 22:40-41]
“And whosoever fears Allaah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allaah, then He will suffice him.” [al-Talaaq 65:2-3]
And there are many aayaat on this topic.
The Prophet ( peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever meets the need of his brother, Allaah will meet his needs.” (Agreed upon; al-Bukhaari, 3/98; Muslim, 4/1996).
And he ( peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: 
“Whoever relieves a believer of some of the distress of this world, Allaah will relieve him of some of the distress of the Day of Resurrection. Whoever makes things easier for one who is suffering hardship, Allaah will make things easier for him in this world and in the Hereafter. Whoever conceals a Muslim’s faults, Allaah will conceal his faults in this world and in the Hereafter. Allaah will help a person so long as he helps his brother.” (Narrated by Muslim, 4/2074).
And there are many ahaadeeth on this topic.
Allaah is the One Whom we ask to reform the affairs of all the Muslims and to bless them with proper understanding of Islam and help them to adhere steadfastly to it and repent to Allaah from all their sins. We ask Him to reform all those who are in authority over the Muslims’ affairs and to support the Truth and eradicate falsehood through them, and to help them to rule the people according to the laws of sharee’ah, and to protect them and all the Muslims from misguidance and temptation and the tricks of the Shaytaan, for He is Able to do all that.

May the blessings and peace of Allaah be upon our Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and companions, and those who follow them in truth until the Day of Resurrection.

Reasons of Earthquakes in the Light of ISLAM.

Assalam o alaikum wr wb!
Praise be to Allaah, and peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allaah, and upon his family, companions, and those who follow his guidance.
Allaah is the All-Wise, All-Knowing in all that He wills and decrees, and He is the All-Wise, All-Knowing in all that He legislates and commands. He creates and decrees whatever signs He wills, to frighten His slaves and remind them of their obligations and duties towards Him, and to warn them against associating anything in worship with Him, going against His commands and doing that which He has forbidden. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And We sent not the signs except to warn” [al-Israa’ 17:59]
“We will show them Our Signs in the universe, and in their own selves, until it becomes manifest to them that this (the Qur’aan) is the truth. Is it not sufficient in regard to your Lord that He is a Witness over all things?” [Fussilat 41:53]
“Say: ‘He has power to send torment on you from above or from under your feet, or to cover you with confusion in party strife, and make you to taste the violence of one another.’” [al-An’aam 6:65]
Al-Bukhaari narrated in his Saheeh from Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that when the aayah (interpretation of the meaning) 
“Say: ‘He has power to send torment on you from above” was revealed, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “A’oodhu bi wajhika(I seek refuge in Your Face”; “or from under your feet”, he said, “A’oodhu bi wajhika (I seek refuge in Your Face).” (Saheeh al-Bukhaari, 5/193).
(Abu’l-Shaykh al-Isbahaani narrated from Mujaahid concerning the Tafseer of this aayah, 
“Say: ‘He has power to send torment on you from above”: (this means) al-Sayhah (the shout or tumult), stones and strong wind; “or from under your feet”, (means) earthquakes and being swallowed up by the earth.)
Undoubtedly the earthquakes that are happening these days are among the signs which Allaah uses to frighten His slaves. All the earthquakes and other things which happen and cause harm and injury to people are because of shirk and sins, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meanings):
“And whatever of misfortune befalls you, it is because of what your hands have earned. And He pardons much” [al-Shoora 42:30]
“Whatever of good reaches you, is from Allaah, but whatever of evil befalls you, is from yourself” [al-Nisaa’ 4:79]
And Allaah said concerning the nations of the past:
“So We punished each (of them) for his sins, of them were some on whom We sent Haasib (a violent wind with shower of stones) [as on the people of Loot (Lot)], and of them were some who were overtaken by As-Saihah [torment — awful cry, (as Thamood or Shu‘ayb’s people)], and of them were some whom We caused the earth to swallow [as Qaaroon (Korah)], and of them were some whom We drowned [as the people of Nooh (Noah), or Fir‘aun (Pharaoh) and his people]. It was not Allaah Who wronged them, but they wronged themselves” [al-‘Ankaboot 29:40]
What Muslims and others who are accountable and of sound mind must do is repent to Allaah, adhere firmly to His Religion and avoid all that He has forbidden of Shirk and sin, so that they may be safe and attain salvation from all evils in this world and the next, and so that Allaah will ward off from them all harm, and bless them with all good. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And if the people of the towns had believed and had the Taqwaa (piety), certainly, We should have opened for them blessings from the heaven and the earth, but they belied (the Messengers). So We took them (with punishment) for what they used to earn (polytheism and crimes).” [al-A’raaf 7:96]
And Allaah says concerning the People of the Book (interpretation of the meaning):
“And if only they had acted according to the Tawraah (Torah), the Injeel (Gospel), and what has (now) been sent down to them from their Lord (the Qur’ân), they would surely, have gotten provision from above them and from underneath their feet” [al-Maa’idah 5:66].
And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Did the people of the towns then feel secure against the coming of Our punishment by night while they were asleep? Or, did the people of the towns then feel secure against the coming of Our punishment in the forenoon while they were playing? Did they then feel secure against the Plan of Allaah? None feels secure from the Plan of Allaah except the people who are the losers.” [al-A’raaf 7:97-99]
Al-‘Allaamah Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: 
“Allaah sometimes gives the earth permission to breathe, which is when major earthquakes happen; this makes people feel scared, so they repent, give up sins, pray to Allaah and feel regret [for their sins]. When there had been an earthquake, some of the Salaf said: your Lord is warning you. When Madeenah was struck by an earthquake, ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with you) addressed the people and said: if there is another earthquake, I will not stay here with you.”

And there are many similar reportes from the Salaf. May Allaah s.w.t guide us to the right path. Ameen summa Ameen

Inspiring Story : The Love Within

 
Assalam o alaykum Dear Readers,
We are truly fortunate to be blessed with the amazing gift of love, we all love in different ways nd have different methods in how we tend to portray tht love to our spouses, nd as time goes by couples get used to each others ways, they get set into their routine nd before you know it tht love tht was once so fresh, vibrant nd new is melted into the background of ur daily routine.
Today we would like to share with you an inspirational story tht we can all relate to in some way or form, but more importantly learn from also in sha Allaah...
 
My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Two years into marriage, I would have to admit that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, have now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness. I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
“Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seemed to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who cannot even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?”
Somebody said it right, it is hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said “I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes…. “My dear, I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
“When you use the computer you always mess up the software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs. You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way. You always have the cramps whenever your ‘good friend’ approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom. You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face… Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ”
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continued reading… “Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favourite bread and fresh milk…” I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread….
Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone….This is life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

A Surah of Quran as a Marriage Dowry

It raises the question on how many of us parents nd youth of today are willing to do this in this current, modern, civilized century ?? While many will feel this to be old fashioned, degrading, insulting, insecure, unworthy and irrational, we must remember a couple of things our beloved prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) said:
 “Blessed is a woman whose engagement and dowry are easy”. Reported by Ahmad nd Al-Nisa i

“Once a woman came to the Prophet (pbuh) nd said, “I dedicate myself to you (for marriage).” She stayed for a long period of time, then a man said, “O Messenger of Allah! If you do not want her, marry me to her”. The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, “What do you have to give as a dowry’?” I have nothing but Izar (waist sheet). The man replied. The Prophet (pbuh) said, “If you give her your Izar, you will have no Izar to wear, so find something (else).” He said, “I have nothing.” The Prophet (pbuh) said, “(Try to) find (something) even if (it is) a ring of iron.” But the man went back with nothing. The Prophet (pbuh) said, “Do you memorize something of the Qur’an’? The man said, “Yes, I memorize such and such and        named       some surahs. Then The Prophet (pbuh) said, “I gave you to each other in marriage for what you memorize of the Qur’an.”
Al-Bukhari and Muslim
And Anas (RAA) reported that when Abu Talhah (RAA) betrothed Umm Salim, she said:
By Allah, no one can reject the like of you, but you are an atheist and I am a Muslim woman. I am not allowed to marry you. My dowry is to embrace Islam, nothing else. When he entered Islam, she married him and that was her dowry.”
The following story was related by Hiba Ammar:
“When my father proposed to my mother, he dedicated Surah Al-Imran, which he memorized off heart, as her “Mahr” (dowry). And when my husband proposed to me, my father told him that he would have to memorize a Surah of the Quran as my mahr. The wedding will not go on unless I’ve received my mahr I was asked to pick one of the surahs. I chose Surah Al-Noor. For all the laws that Surah contained within it and for the fact that it seemed hard to memorize on my behalf. And before our wedding day; aside of being busy preparing for our “Newly wedded Nest”, the Quran wouldn’t leave my husband’s hand an entire month as he was memorizing the Surah.
A few days before our wedding day, my husband came to recite to my father the Surah which he had completed. My father told him every time u make a mistake, you would have to start from the beginning all over again.
My husband began reciting Surah Al-Noor with his calm/gentle voice in such a “beautiful” scene which I will never forget. My mother and I would look at one another and would smile awaiting my husband to make a mistake so he would have to start all over again and by that increase my “Reward”.
But my husband – May Allah bless him – had memorized the Surah off by heart and didn’t even forget one single verse of it. Once he finished my father hugged him and said to him: “Today I shall marry my daughter to you, for you have fulfilled her mahr and your pledge to me..”
He didn’t pay me a financial mahr, and we didn’t buy gold worth tens of thousands. He sufficed me with Allah’s words as an oath/ contract between us. And the Question is…. I wonder what Surah my daughter will chose as her mahr in the future?”
 
Some may dispute on whether giving a portion of Quran memorization as a dowry is permissible in Islam, some may reprehend it even if it were, it is not for us to get into the fiqh issues of this, or comment weather it is right or wrong. We just wanted to emphasis the point nd moral of avoiding extravagant amounts of money, wealth or gold as dowry, to question our motives and intentions of our marriage nd correct them for extra rewards nd blessings for the sake of our Lord, nd to promote awareness of  other possible nd acceptable alternative forms of dowry, nd Allaah Swt knows best...icon wink A Surah of Quran as a Marriage Dowry
 

A Letter To A Mother From Her Newly Wedded Daughter

Dear mom,

Like every normal girl, I was excited abt marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time tht I would spend happily with my prince charming. But today when I am married, I realize tht marriage is not all roses. It’s not just abt being with ur beloved nd having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices nd compromises.
I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
I am expected to be up nd ready before everyone else in the family.
I can’t laze around in my pajamas throughout the day.
I am expected to be presentable every time.
I can’t just go out anytime I want to.
I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family.
I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to.
I am expected to be active nd around the family.
I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.
And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all ??’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you nd getting pampered again. I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on ur laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married nd made such sacrifices in ur life, I wouldn’t have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to return the same comfort, peace nd happiness to my new family tht I got from you.
And I m sure tht as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices nd compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same.

Love you so Much .. :* <3

Tips on How to be a Pleasing and Happy Muslim Wife

  • Make Dua to Allaah Swt to make ur Marriage nd Relationship Successful.
    It’s simple nd easy, but forgotten. All good things are frm Allaah Swt  so why do we forget to ask Allaah Swt for the blessings of having a successful marriage ?? This amazing relationship fisabillah begins in this Dunya nd continues on – by the Mercy of Allaah Swt – into Jannah. Always ask Allaah Swt for forgiveness nd blessings on ur marriage everyday.

  • Listen nd Obey, he is ur Key to Jannah.
    Obeying ur husband is Fard upon you as long as it doesn’t clash with Islam ! ur husband is the Ameer (commander, ruler) of the household. Give him tht right nd respect tht Allaah Swt has blessed him with. Be the best wife you can be in sha Allaah without letting arrogance or pride get in the way. This is another form of jihaad nd rewardable in the same way, so if he is difficult, be patient with him nd if he is good be extra grateful to him. Always seek to please ur husband, for he is ur key to Jannah. Rasul Allaah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – taught us tht any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah.

  • An Argument is a Fire in the House.
    Extinguish it with a simple ‘I’m sorry’ even if it is not ur fault. When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, “Habibi, I’m sorry. Let’s makeup nd be best friends again.” Pick ur battles. Nagging nd nitpicking can destroy a relationship, so dn’t do it for irrelevant or unimportant things. For instance, dn’t nag him abt the mess he leaves in the bathroom  or how he cleans up the kitchen, if he is making an effort to help you in tht way then tht alone is something to be grateful nd thankful for. So Let him do things his own way. Dn’t stress over the small stuff. Focus on wht is important.

  • Thank ur Husband Constantly for the Nice Things he Does.
    Allaah Swt says, if you dn’t thank people then you have not thanked HIM. So if ur Habibi comes back from work one day with some chocolates for you, but they ate not milk chocolates tht you like, they are dark mint chocolates tht ur not so fond of, lol it’s ok to still show ur appreciation nd excitement. Thanking him for his every effort is a show of appreciation nd encouragement for him. This is an important trait, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hell fire.

  • Joke nd Play Games with ur Husband.
    A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted nd have a sense of humor with a big smile on her face, not moody, grouchy nd boring. Dn’t rely on him to start the conversations, make the first move nd start the play fight ALL the time. Make an effort to take him by surprise, be confident nd bubbly. Give him a fake remote control nd let him change you to wht ever mode he wants. As our blessed prophet Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – told Jabir (raa) to marry someone who would make him laugh nd he would make her laugh.

  • Be Confident abt Yourself !
    Be secure in urself. Putting urself down in front of him is another way of insulting his taste in women. Doing this will open his eyes to flaws in you he never even noticed nd wouldn’t have if you hadn’t made it apparent in the first place. If he is with you, it’s bcz he wants to be. Just bcz you dn’t find urself to be attractive looking or sexy this doesn’t mean he thinks nd feels the same way. Remember tht ur attitude, confidence nd willingness, play a large part of being wanted nd attracted to. Poor self-esteem nd lack of confidence have very negative side effects in marriage. Make sure to create nd maintain a fun nd interesting intimate relationship. Expecting ur husband to reassure you nd compliment you continuously all the the time, making him work extra hard to get you to loosen up, relax nd enjoy urself with him, will tire him out. He will eventually feel himself working to fill a void he cn’t. Do you want this to lead him to feel inadequate and unhappy ?? Believe in urself nd believe tht you are beautiful nd act the part, no one else will know or feel  any different.

  • Understand nd Respect ur Husband’s Rights.
    Study authentic hadith nd make sure tht you understand ur obligations as a wife as well as understand ur rights. In Islam, a good wife is expected to be honest, sincere nd congnizant of her husband’s needs. At the same time her husband must respect her, appreciate this nd fulfill her needs also. Our blessed prophet saaws despite all his responsibilities, found time to even sew his own clothes nd sweep the home, helping in household chores.

  • When ur Husband comes Home, Greet him with a Wonderful Greeting.
    Greet ur husband with a smile nd a loving kiss nd hug, make him feel welcome nd greatly missed, make him feel special nd well cared for. Imagine ur husband coming home to a clean house, a sweet smelling nd attractive wife, a dinner prepared with care nd thought, clean nd nicely dressed children, a romantic nd organized bedroom – Ponder over wht would this do to his love for you nd his longing to race back home to meet nd greet you ??  Then imagine how the opposite of the above would effect him icon wink Tips on How to be a Pleasing & Happy Muslim Wife

  • Use ur ‘Beauty’ to Win the Heart of ur Husband.
    We may not always have all talents, some women are good at baking others may be more educated, some are talented in reading Quran some may be better with children nd family, but one thing is for sure, all women have the ornaments tht Allaah Swt blessed them with. Use the beauty Allaah Swt has bestowed you with to win the heart of ur husband. Knowing how nd when a suitable time is to discuss certain topics is a talent tht takes time to master but when you have done so you will reap the fruits of it’s benefits. Show ur love, affection nd appreciation in more ways than one.

  • Express, dn’t Accuse.
    Except in the rare event tht ur husband happens to be psychic, dn’t expect mind-reading powers. If you want something, ask. If something is wrong, say so in a respectable manner. Dn’t drop hints or stay moody nd assume he’ll “catch on”. Communicate calmly, sweetly,clearly nd directly. Relationships work best when each partner expresses their current emotion without the sarcastic remarks, bringing up past issues or harping on wht he/she has done. Sometimes a simple ‘I feel hurt’ is all it takes for him to step back nd ask, “Why?” Then simply say, “When you slammed the door, I felt ignored.” or wht ever is relevant. Let the “I feel” be ur guide.

  • Dn’t Expect Perfection.
    Unmet expectations tend to frustrate everyone. It’s never going to be perfect, as boring as it sounds, it requires team effort nd a lot of patience, as neither of you are perfect.Only Allaah Swt is perfect nd His Islam is perfect, so keeping urself focused on ur religious goals nd using each other to help you get there will keep you close to each other nd successful. Set standards tht are obtainable so tht ur expectations of each other are not too high. It’s unfair to expect a better way of living for example nd still have the love of ur life home for every meal. Should you want more one to one time with ur husband, be prepared to have tht desire fulfilled at some expense. Accept him nd love him unconditionally as you would expect to be loved nd accepted. He is a growing individual, just like you are. Help him grow in the direction tht he chooses, nd give him the chance to help you in the way he knows best how.

Sunday, 4 October 2015

Smoking : A Social Poison


Introduction

Discovery Of Tobacco

Tobacco was discovered by the Spanish sailors on the American shores at about 1500 CE (900 AH). Since its discovery, the epidemic of smoking has continued to spread all over the world. In our times, one seldom finds a house not afflicted by it.

As early as the Seventeenth Century, the European countries realized the dangers of smoking and fought against it Laws were ordained in England, Russia, Denmark, Sweden, Austria, and other countries, prohibiting smoking and punishing violators.

Nowadays, the Western countries continue their attempts to protect their peoples from the harms of smoking. They employ media means, ordain laws and regulations, and apply other methods to discourage people from smoking. Because of that, the rate of smokers has declined to a certain degree in those countries.

Smoking Among Muslims

Smoking was introduced to the Muslim countries by the Europeans around 1000 AH. Its spread among the Muslims was similar to that in the West. The unfortunate fact, however, is that in the Muslim countries, no similar measures were exerted to protect the people from it. To the contrary, the media continues to advertise smoking and encourage people to do it. This caused the epidemic of smoking to continue to spread in those countries to such an extent that it has become hard to control.

Smoking has become the rule, and abstaining from it the exception. Often, people look with astonishment and disdain at a person whom when a cigarette is offered to him, declines to smoke explaining that he does not smoke.
Offering cigarettes to the guests has become among the first rules of hospitality. Anyone who does not offer them to his guests or insist on them to smoke would be violating the ethics of hospitality and generosity!

Furthermore, some of those who pretend to represent the Deen are among the worst addicts to smoking. When they are reproached or reminded of their vice, they respond by providing weak excuses to justify it in the name of Islam. They slyly remark that there is no clear text prohibiting smoking. Therefore, they conclude, smoking is not prohibited, but is only makruh (disliked). By this, they provide a poor excuse for the ignorant, and establish a very bad example for others.
Such statements have influenced many Muslims, causing them to fall into the snares of addiction to smoking. This is observed all over the world. A striking example is that All-American airlines now prohibit smoking, even on most international flights; on the other hand, for Muslim airlines, one travels in a near-suffocation state, even on short trips, because of the high number of smokers.

Thus, it becomes incumbent to write an article which provides evidence concerning the ruling of smoking in Islam. We hope that this will benefit our Muslim brothers and sisters; and we ask Allah to accept it from us as a sincere deed for His pleasure.

Definition

Smoking refers to the action of lighting a cigarette, a pipe, a cigar, a water pipe, or any other object made from tobacco or materials of similar effects. The object is then sucked on with the lips to extract smoke. This smoke is inhaled into the chest and then exhaled from the nose and mouth as a thick white smoke. "Smoking" is now used to refer to the action of producing this smoke in English, Arabic, and other languages.

Evidence for the Prohibition of Smoking

There are many reasons, any one of which sufficient to rule smoking prohibited. Most importantly, it is harmful in numerous ways. It is harmful to the Deen, health, environment, family, brotherhood and social relations, property, etc. The following sections will briefly outline some of its harms and evils.

Haram To The Deen

Smoking spoils a person's acts of worship and reduces their rewards. For instance, it spoils the prayer, which is the pillar of Deen. Allah's Messenger said: Whoever eats garlic or onion, let 
him avoid us and our masjid, and stay in his home. The angels are surely hurt by things that hurt the human beings(1)

Those with clean and undefiled fitrah (nature) have no doubt that the smell emanating from the mouth of a smoker is worse and more foul than that from the mouth of one who ate garlic or onion. Thus, a smoker is in between two options, either to harm the praying people and the angels with his foul smell, or miss the prayer in jama'ah.
Smoking also spoils fasting. Fasting is very hard for the smoker. As soon as the day is over, he hastens to break his fast on an evil cigarette instead of sweet dates or pure water. Even if he fasts through the month Ramadan, a smoker is reluctant to fast on other days. Thus he loses the great reward of those who fast even one day in Allah's way.

Harm To The Human Body

 No one can deny the harm of smoking to the human body. The medical evidence for this is well established and overwhelming. Because of this, the law in the United States and many other countries requires including a warning on any smoking advertisement.

Smoking contains poisonous materials, such as nicotine, tar, carbon monoxide, arsenic, benzopyrene, etc., that the smoker swallows in small proportions. Their harm accumulates with time to result in a gradual killing of the human organs and tissues.

The hazards of smoking to the health are hard to enumerate. Cancer, tuberculosis, heart attacks, asthma, coughing, premature birth, infertility, infections in the digestive system, high blood pressure, nervousness, mouth and teeth diseases, etc., are among the many health hazards that have been strongly linked to smoking.

These diseases may not appear all at once, however a smoker is most likely to suffer from some of them, and his suffering increases as he grows older. Furthermore, statistics have established that smokers' age is, on the average, ten years less than other people's.
This is sufficient to prohibit smoking. Islam prohibits any action that causes harm to oneself or to other people. Allah says (what means):

"Do not kill yourselves, Allah is indeed merciful to you."(2)
"Do not cast yourselves, with your own hands, into destruction.": (3)

And the Messenger says: No harm may be inflicted on oneself or others.(4)

The feet of a human being will not depart, on the day of Judgement, from his standing before his Lord, until he is questioned about five things: his lifetime - how did he pass it, his youth - how did he used it, his wealth - where did he earn it and how did he spend it, and how did he follow what he knew.(5)

Whoever consumes poison, killing himself with it, then he will he consuming his poison in the hellfire, and he will abide in it permanently and eternally.(6)
Harm To The Mind and Will Power

Smoking is harmful to the human mind and reason. An obvious demonstration of this is that one who is addicted to it passes through periods of severe craving, making it hard for him to think, concentrate, solve a problem, or do any important matter, until he smokes.

When one smokes, his muscles slacken, and he passes through a brief period of delirium that curtains the thought. His digestive system is also affected, causing him frequent nervousness and trembling of the hands. He passes through periods of excitability, in irritation, and insomnia.

Thus, instead of being Allah's slave, a smoker becomes slave to his cigarette. He develops a weaker control of his sense and reason. The faculty of reason, clear and unobstructed, is one of Allah's great bounties on people. He praised it in numerous places of the Qur'an; and He called on people to use it to see the truth and obey Him in a better way. Allah wants of the believer to be strong and capable of controlling the reigns of his desires. He said (what means):

"AIIah wants to let you into His mercy, whereas those who follow the desires want you to drift far away (from the right path)."(7)
Harm To The Environment

A smoker emits his poisons in the faces of his companions, wife, children, and the environment. It is well established that second-hand smoke is almost as dangerous as first-hand. Thus, whether they like it or not, a smoker's associates are forced to inhale the smoke and be themselves smokers as well.

In addition to the poisons normally carried in the smoke, if a smoker has an contagious disease, such as tuberculosis or influenza, his exhaled smoke and coughing carry the disease to those around him.

Furthermore, a smoker irritates people by the foul smell and poisonous nature of his smoking. If they suffer from asthma or allergies, they are forced to move away from his vicinity. The Prophet (saws) said:

Anyone who believes in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt his neighbour.(8)
Thus, smoking constitutes a definite harm to other people; this is prohibited, as was indicated in the hadith cited earlier.

Also, a smoker is certainly a bad companion to sit with, as is depicted in the following hadith:
Verily, the example of a good companion and a bad one is like that of a perfume merchant and a blacksmith: As for the perfume merchant, he would either grant you (some perfume), or you would buy (some perfume) from him, or (in the least) you would get a good smell from him. And as for the blower of the bellows (ironsmith), you would either get a foul odour from him, or he would burn your clothes.(9)

Harm To The Property

A smoker wastes his wealth on that which harms and has no benefit; he will be asked about his wealth and how he spent it, as has been cited in the hadith earlier. His wealth belongs to Allah, so how would he dare to waste it in disobedience to Him? Allah says (what means):

"And do not entrust to the imprudent ones the possessions that Allah has placed in your charge.. (10)

"And do not waste (your resources) extravagantly. Indeed the squanderers are the brethren of the devils"(11)

And the Prophet (saws) said: Allah hates for you three things: gossiping, begging, and wasting money.(12)

Furthermore, there are numerous cases of burnt carpets, furniture, and even complete houses and establishments that have resulted from this disastrous vice.

Moral Decadence

Smoking is a form of moral decadence. It is most spread among the low-class immoral people. It reflects blind imitation of the non-Muslims. It is mostly consumed in bars, discos, casinos, and other: places of sin. A smoker may beg or steal if he does not have the money to buy cigarettes. He is ill-mannered with his friends and family, especially when he misses taking his necessary "dose" at the usual time.

Evil Substance

Smoking involves the consumption of an evil substance (khabeeth). It has a foul smell, foul taste, and is harmful to the body. This is sufficient to: prohibit it, because Allah says (what means):

"(The Prophet) who will enjoin upon them the doing of what is right, forbid them the doing of what is wrong, make lawful to them the good things of life, prohibit for them the evil things, and lift from them their burdens and the shackles that were (previously) upon them."(13)

Resembling The People Of The Fire

A smoker inhales the smoke that does not give him any nourishment. This is similar to the action of the people of the Hell fire who eat harmful thorny plants:

"No food will be there for them but a poisonous thorny plant, which will neither nourish them nor still their hunger."(14)

Bad Example

A smoker, whether he likes it or not, makes of himself an example for his children and others to follow. He leads them to commit this evil. Actions sometimes have a stronger effect than words. Thus, even if he advises them or forbids them from smoking, his partaking of it provides them with a strong excuse to do it.

The problem is worse when the smoker is of known piety or knowledge. In such case, his harm becomes more emphasized, because more people take him as guide and example, and are thus lead astray by him. This multiplies his sins and increases his burden.

Hostility Toward The Good People

The majority of good people avoid smoking and stay away from smokers. Therefore, a smoker would be forced to stay away from them - at least while he smokes. He puts himself in a selective exile, creating a spiritual distance and hostility between him and the good people, and a closeness to the evil people. The effects of this become more apparent and acute with time.
Note that this applies equally to any sin that a person commits, small or large.

Low Self Esteem

A smoker despises himself, because he feels that a little cigarette is controlling him. Realizing his weakness before desires, this creates in him a feeling of defeat in the face of hardships.

Scholars' Verdict

Since smoking became known to Muslims, all of the great scholars who have the capability of Ijtihad (deriving verdicts in new situations) agree to its prohibition. Thus, there is no value for baseless opinions, conflicting with this, provided by self-proclaimed lesser scholars.

Warnings

In discussing the subject of the prohibition of smoking, there are some important warnings that need to be mentioned:

1. As indicated before, the prohibition of smoking is not restricted to cigarettes, but applies as well to other objects that have similar effects such as cigars, pipes, water-pipes, chewing tobacco or sniffing tobacco, etc.

2. The reasons mentioned above for prohibiting smoking apply as well, and more strongly, to various types of drugs and hashish such as marijuana and -tat. These materials have additional problems such as causing drunkenness, death, madness, etc.

3. The prohibition of smoking is not restricted to consuming it, but applies as well to offering it to people, sitting with those who are smoking, or selling it. All of this involves helping people commit sins, which is prohibited, as Allah says (which means):

"Help one another in righteousness and piety, and do not help one another in sinning and transgression. And fear and revere Allah; verily, Allah is severe in punishment."(15)

Also, Allah's Messenger said: Indeed when Allah prohibits something, he prohibits eating its 
price.(16)

Treating the Disease of Smoking

Only few of those addicted to smoking are able to stop it. The reasons for this are many, among which are the following:

1. The addictive nature of the poisonous substances contained in it.
2. The smokers are not totally convinced of its prohibition.
3. They do not have a strong determination to refrain from it.

The following are some suggestions to help a person stop smoking:

1. Rely on Allah sincerely, with full determination not to return to smoking, in compliance with Allah's command:
"When you decide on a certain course of action, place your trust in Allah."(17)

2. Stop immediately instead of claiming it is best to do it gradually. The gradual approach is the way of one who does not trust his determination and the will power that Allah has granted him. Let the example be taken from the Sahabah who, as soon as Allah's command reached them regarding alcohols:" Will you not then desist?"(18) They immediately poured out all the alcohol that they had and said, "We desist our Lord, we desist!" They did this despite the fact that alcohol has a greater addictive power over those who drink it.

3. Avoid the bad company of smokers and smoking environments that are full with the smell of smoke.

4. Change the food diet by abstaining from foods and drinks that would entice the craving to smoke such as spices, meat, tea, and coffee; and eating a lot of vegetables and fruits.

5. Use medically tested and established procedures to help stop smoking, as directed by physicians, such as nicotine patches, nicotine gum, etc.

6. Expel the secret whispers of Satan who continuously dictates to the human being that he is weak and incapable of refraining from sinning, as Allah says (what means)

"It is but Satan who instills (into you) fear of his allies; so do not fear them, but fear Me if you are (truly) believers.. "(19)
"Fight then against the allies of Satan; indeed, Satan's guile is weak.. "(20)

References
"The Ruling of Smoking" by Muhammad bin Ibraaheem (r)
"The Ruling of Smoking" by `Abdur-Rahman Bin Naasir as-Sa`di (r).
"The Ruling of Smoking" by `Abdul-`Aziz Bin 'Abdullaah Bin Baaz.
"The Ruling of Smoking" by Muhammad Bin Salih al-'Uthaymin.
Hukm ul-lslami fit-Tadkhin by Muhammad Jamil Zinu.
Hukm ud-Dini fil-Lihyati wat-Tadkhin by 'Ah Hasan al-Halabi.
"Smoking and Its Effects on Health" by Dr. Muhammad 'Ali al-Barr.

Footnotes

(1) Al-Bukhaari and Muslim from Jabir and other Sahaabah .
(2) An-Nisa' 4-29.
(3) Al-Baqarah 2:195.
(4) Recorded by Ahmad and Ibn Maajah from Ibn `Abbaas and `Ubaadah; authenticated by al-Albaani and others.
(5) Recorded by at-Tirmithi and others from Ibn Mas`ud and AbO Barzah , authenticated by al-Albaani.
(6) Al-Bukhaari and Muslim from Jaabir
(7) An-Nisa 4:27.
(8) Al-Bukhaari.
(9) Al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
(10) An-Nisa 4:5.
(11) Al-lsra' 17:26-27.
(12) Al-Bukhaari and Muslim.
(I3) Al-A'raf 7:157.
(14) Al-Ghaashiyah 88:6-7.
(15) Al-Maidah 5:2.
(16) Recorded by Ahmad and Abu Dawud from Ibn `Abbas; authenticated by al-Albaani.
(I7) Al-'lmran 3:159
(18) Al-Maa'idah 5 91
(19) Al-`Imraan 3:175.
(20) An-Nisaa' 4:76.