A brother
approaches a sister:-"hey, you seem to be a very good Muslimah, just as I
imagine my future wife to be! I really want to know you better before I
take any step and ask for your hand in marriage!”
Sister, is this familiar to you? !
Well this is what many Muslim men are doing unfortunately on facebook or any other social network sites!!
ACTUALLY LETS SEE HOW IT START AND THEN WHAT HAPPEN
A brother
approaches a sister and makes her feel special, and that he really wants
to marry her… Then he starts with her a forbidden relationship through
the net because he wants to “know her better” before taking the first
step towards engagement! And when she reminds him about marriage, he
starts giving her some EXCUSES as : ” well let’s know each other more,
we are still young for marriage” OR “honey! I am not ready for marriage
for the moment! I didn’t finish my studies yet!” OR “marriage?!!
But how can I
provide you if I marry you ? wait till I find a good work, then we will
get married!” OR “dear, I don’t know how to tell you this but my
parents want me to marry my cousin… But of course I will “try” to
convince them about our marriage!”
Sisters....
Wake up!! These are all LIES and excuses because he doesn’t want you
actually! Many men are like him, when they will choose to get married
they would let their mothers choose for them a girl who’ve never had a
boyfriend… if someone really wants you, he would go to your house with
no hesitation to ask your father/wali for your hand in marriage A good
Muslim man wouldn’t approach the girl but her wali but if he is not
ready for marriage, then he would fear HIS Lord and never let you face
Allah’s Anger by your forbidden relationship!...
OPEN YOUR EYES BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE.. NO ONE PLAYS WITH YOUR HEART UNTIL YOU ALLOW THEM TO DO
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