“I Know It’s Haram But …I Love Him !!”

This is the answer that some sisters give when they tell them that having bf is Haram in Islam. So this is a message for everyone of them:
 
"Dear sister, Generally, a Muslim should only love the man she will accept to marry because of his commitment to his deen! The more he will be closed to God, the more she should love him.
 
What about you? Why do you love him? Is it because of his sweet love words? Be Certain that they are nothing but whispers devils !! Is it because of his promises of marriage? If he really wants you, he would be a real man and come to your house to ask for your hand in marriage ... If he is a real man, he would approach your guardian not you !!Have you ever asked yourself if he truly loves you? Because if he truly does, then he would not let you face hell !!
 
True love is when you pray to be Gathered in Jannah with the one you love! That's true love, and it only comes with Halal, after marriage!
 
Have you ever asked yourself if he would let his sister have a boyfriend?A real Muslim man would have on his Maharim Jealousy (his mother, sister, wife ...) and if he has no Jealousy, so he is "dayouth" as Prophet Mohammad (sallaAllahualaihi wa sallam) Described this type of man! If he would let his sister to have a bf, then you will know his true value, but if he would refuse to let her have a bf then you will know your true value in his sight !!
 
Dear sister, know that no matter how much he "loves" you in this Dunya, he will hate you 1,000 times more than that in the Akhirah.
 
YES !! He will HATE you, he will blame you for your relationship when he will be between the Hands of God, and he will beg for you to be thrown into the fire instead of him!
 
Allah says in the Qur'an: "Al Akhillaa (Friends / the lovers who had forbidden relationships) on that Day will be foes one to another (they will be like enemies) except Al-Muttaqun (the ones who feared Allah)" (43 : 67)
 
Is that the kind of love you want? A temporary feeling you get in Dunya, a feeling inspired by Shaytan roomates turn to hate in Akhirah? !!
 
Do you love God sister? Because two kinds of love would never be together in a believer's heart: forbidden love and love of the Lord of the Worlds!
 
Dear, please wake up before it's too late, you still have time to of make things right, leave this Haram relationship right now!
 
Leave it for Allah .. Wallahi the price HE will grant you will be greater than you have ever thought ...
 
Just the make that step today before tomorrow

May Allah Azza Wa Jall guide us to the straight path . Aameen .