Never, By Allah ! Allah Will Never Disgrace You

And do you know who said this?

Do you know why this was said?

SubhanAllah.

Indeed, you find it amazing that you hear it from a great woman when Islam was yet to be introduced.
But, she was not like any other woman, she was the woman whom Allah Azza Wa Jall handpicked to be the companion of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalaam on his greatest journey.

She was Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid Radiyallahu Anha.
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Wallahi whenever I go through the story of the beginning of the Wahy (revelation) to the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalaam, this part with his wife truly melts my heart.

I really find it amazing on how Allah Azza Wa Jall placed such love and wisdom upon Khadijah Radiyallahu Anha, she just had this beautiful way of comforting the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalaam.

”… When he (The Prophet) arrived home, he was received warmly by Khadijah Radiyallahu Anha as usual. He asked Khadijah RA to cover him with a blanket because he was still shivering. Khadijah RA gave him a blanket. When he felt better, he expressed concerned about what was happening. He narrated the whole incident and said that he was frightened and actually feared for his life.

By this, Khadijah RA with her beautiful soul, reassured the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalaam with such words above (Never, by Allah! Allah will never disgrace you.”

Khadijah RA reassured the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalaam of his praiseworthy character and attributes. She reminded hiim that he was always truthful, that he brought people’s hearts together, that he helped the poor and the needy, assisted the weak, and treated his guests.

Subhan’Allah, the words of Khadijah RA at that time were full of wisdom.

By reminding him of the good things he had done for years, she essentially said that a person with his character could not be disgraced by Allah; if anything, Allah would honor such person.“
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Allahu’akbar !

Khadijah RA gave the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wassalaam, reassurance.

Wallahi, I have seen how marriages broke because the other spouse couldn’t give such reassurance to the other. May Allah Azza Wa Jall make it easy for everyone. Amin

Indeed, reassurance is hard to find from people, because some people love for the sake of love, just loves what is happening right now, but those who love for the sake of Allah Azza Wa Jall, doesn’t only care about the love that is now and the time that is now, but they think beyond the future in the dunya but the future for the akhirah, your life after death!

Always reassure the person you love of the good things they have, for there are people on this world that love so big but receive so little, and all they usually ask is to be reassured that they are loved back or that they are cared for as well.

To those who are married, let this be a reminder for you and your spouse on how such things should be handled when there comes a calamity or distress upon each other.

To those who are bound to marry, learn from the character of Khadijah RA, whether you are the groom or you are the bride to be, incorporate this beautiful character of Khadijah RA.

To those who are still looking for marriage, reassure your parents with the love you have for them, that no matter what age they reach you will always be there for them.
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And we pray that Allah Azza Wa Jall grants us pious companions in this dunya that remind us of the akhirah.

Aameen Ya Rabb